Thoughts on Our Boy

This is an old picture of Bubba, but with all the changes I've been going through with computers I haven't downloaded much from the camera lately. 

I've wanted to write down some of the developments we've been seeing in him lately, if only for my records.  I can't say how many times in the last few weeks Ethan or I have said something to the effect of what a joy he is to raise.  This is the same kiddo that has brought me to tears of frustration many times in the past.  I don't know what's going on, only that my heart has never felt more full.  We've noticed that he's showing first-time obedience most of the time.  (Shocking!)  Although he's not a perfect gentleman to his baby sister, for the most part I can trust him to play nicely with her.  He'll ask her to go outside with him or push him in his tonka truck.  He also LOVES to have her chase him and tickle him.  It's adorable.

After finding out he would be having a very inconsistent schedule in public school this year, we decided to keep him home.  He's following a preschool curriculum that I write to his ability level.  A lot of the ideas for preschoolers aren't even something he can do because of the language, but we've found some creative ways to work around it.  One game he likes involves hiding his favorite blanket.  When it's time for him to find it, he has to listen to directional clues like "under, to the left, inside" and so on.  He laughs like a hyena when he finds it.  :)  He's done "bowling" with paper bags, where he has to knock down the paper bag with the right letter taped to it.  And of course, there's so much we can do that appeals to his need for sensory stimulation.  Making letters in a pan of rice or feeling sandpaper numbers is great fun.  Of course, I'd have much more trouble doing this if it wasn't for his aide being here every day to help him.  Makes life far easier!

Here's a funny thing he's been up to lately.  He'll look me (or Daddy) in the eyes really sweetly and say, "Mommy want an owie?"  His little fingers are always at the ready to pinch if we say yes! 

I know our lives with autism in them have been so hard, but the joys are so rich.  Every little triumph is cause for great celebration.  I'm thankful to God that He blessed us in this way!

If You Give A Mom A Muffin

If you give a mom a muffin, she'll want a cup of coffee to go with it.  She'll pour herself some.  Her three-year-old will spill the coffee.  She'll wipe it up.  Wiping the floor, she will find dirty socks.  She'll remember she has to do laundry.  When she puts the laundry in the washer, she'll trip over boots and bump into the freezer.  Bumping into the freezer will remind her that she has to plan supper.  She will get out a pound of hamburger.  She'll look for her cookbook.  (101 Things to Do With a Pound of Hamburger).  The cookbook is sitting under a pile of mail.  She will see the phone bill, which is due tomorrow.  She will look for her checkbook.  The checkbook is in her purse that is being dumped out by her two-year-old.  She'll smell something funny.  She'll change the two-year-old.  While she is changing the two-year-old the phone will ring.  Her five-year-old will answer and hang up.  She'll remember that she wants to phone a friend to come for coffee.  Thinking of coffee will remind her that she was going to have a cup.  She will pour herself some and chances are, if she has a cup of coffee, her kids will have eaten the muffin that went with it.

- Kathy Fictorie

My Running . . . Derailed

So I'm averaging one post a month this summer. Fantastic!

Sometimes you know that God is trying to tell you something. For me it seems to be "STOP RUNNING". Maybe I should explain . . .

A few weeks ago I started noticing a nagging pain in my hip. It happened shortly after Ethan and I ran 13.1 miles. That was my longest distance yet. I tried to back off on miles a little bit and went in to see a sports chiropractor. He recommended icing it and getting treatment. Well, ice is basically free so I went with that. I had just about decided to to call him for treatment yesterday because the pain wasn't improving (although I have not run in 1 week). Instead, our night went as follows:

I made stir-fry for dinner. Ethan had a late meeting so I was preparing to sit down and eat with the kids.

Bubba got super angry over something, who knows what, and threw a glass at the table.

I picked up all the pieces of the glass, getting a small shard in my thumb. Was totally annoyed about that.

Put the broken glass in the trash bag and sat down for dinner.

Ate dinner.

Started clearing the table and decided to take the trash out. Picked up the trash bag and went to cinch the top.

Broken glass falls over in the bag, breaks through, and falls on the top of my foot.

So there I was, staring at my foot and thinking Why can I see white?!

And then it hit me, I was looking at my bone. (Eeeeww.) I started feeling sick to my stomach and asked Spunky to grab my cell phone. Then I told the kids, "If mama passes out, it's totally okay. It's just because I'm looking at blood."

I called our neighbor, who is a former nurse, and she came over and advised me to go get stitches. (She probably would have stitched my foot herself but she's pretty advanced in age and doesn't have the best eyesight.) So, while Bubba ran around the house pulling off his sister's diaper and generally wreaking havoc I sat on the couch and waited for Ethan to get home. It wasn't a long wait, thankfully!

The doctor said it may be a few days before I'll want to run. Or a week or so. Maybe it's for the best; it will give the hip some time to heal. :)

Here Comes the School Year

I am getting so excited for our upcoming school year. This is our 5th year of homeschooling . . . can you believe it? Spunky will be in third grade, Giggles in second, and Bubba in Pre-K. I've always used Sonlight as our curriculum but am adding some additional resources this year. We're using Math-U-See which we did last year and loved. We have this amazing history wall chart from Konos that is like 4 ft by 6 ft. Our little history characters (that will stick to the chart) are coming in the mail next week. Still not sure where we're going to put such an immense teaching aid . . . the ceiling, maybe? :)

I've been researching different spelling programs to see what's best for us. One that I'm intrigued with is called "Spell to Write and Read". But I'm not super interested in it because while reviewers speak highly of the results, they also say that mom has to put in serious hours to learn it. (One reviewer claimed to have spent 100 hours learning it before she felt prepared to teach.) Yikes! So I'm still looking.

There are several homeschool co-ops here in this area. We've actually been on a waiting list for 2 separate ones in the past few years, but a new one is opening up and I think we'll be a part of it. I'm not sure what to teach or assist with yet . . . maybe dance or music? The girls think their baby sister needs to teach drama. :) Some classes available for my kids to take would include Spanish, public speaking, and zoology.

If you could teach a class on anything, what would you choose?

FINALLY!

If you've wondered why I've been mysteriously absent from the blogging world it is because something was broken on my blog.  Yes, that's actually true.  I had to switch over to the new editor from the old, an answer I only found by going to "Help". 

It feels so good to be back!

Now if I only had something significant to say. 








Darn.